第6章 骗子
姜依在match上遇到的第一个人，说自己是驻伊拉克美军，姜依觉得奇怪，伊拉克还有美军吗？姜依上网查了一下，网上是这样说的：骗子编的故事都是自己是孤儿或很小就失去父母，妻子也生病死了，留下一个未成年孩子，自己在阿富汗、伊拉克、叙利亚、那些地方维和，很快就会退休，来到你的城市想和你一起度过余生，然后就会告诉你他们每天要巡逻，在营地很辛苦也很危险，过不了几天就会和你说要去执行一项很秘密的任务，不知道自己还能不能活着回来，然后就会突然失踪几天，告诉你任务结束了，很幸运自己还活着，他们就会发一些战场上的照片和自己受伤的照片给你，然后就会把故事进行到最重要的环节，就是骗子在营地得到嘉奖或者是其他原因得到一笔意外之财，说战场上不能存放大量美金和贵重物品，自己也没有任何亲人，你是他最信任的人，想尽办法让你帮他接收包裹或者是装美金的箱子，一般他们会给你发装满美金箱子的照片，让你帮他接收或者是保管，接着就要你的地址和个人信息，然后就开始给你邮寄箱子，之后就有个所谓的外交官和你联系，在邮寄过程中就会出现各种各样的困难让你汇钱去解决，其实都是骗子一人所为或者是诈骗同伙合伙做案。姜依心想，幸好自己查了资料，原来相亲还是有骗子的。
姜依遇到的第二个联系她的人，是一个美国人，他说自己是装修公司的老板，他的名字叫大卫，他使用match的邮件很绅士的问候姜依，姜依的英文不好，她使用各种翻译软件帮忙，并积极的学习英语。当她告诉了大卫她的邮箱地址，很快便收到大卫长长的信。
Hellojiang，
Howareyoudoing?thanksforacceptingtobemyfriend.Ireallytookmytimetowriteyouthisletterinaspecialwaybecauseifeelyouareandwanttomakeourfriendshipspecial.Icameacrossthousandsofprofilesandyourscaptivatedme.iknowitmightsoundsofunnybutitsthefact.WellImustsayyouarewonderfulandIwillreallywanttoknowmoreaboutyouifyoudon'tmindihadtheopportunitytofindasoulmateoncebutdeathtookherawayfrommeyearsago.IamwidowerandIamreadytotradeinthepathofrelationshipagain，youwillagreewithmethatthereisnothingtopareloveandthesweetnessitbrings.Letmetellyoumoreaboutme.
MynameisDavidHeinrich，IamoriginallyfromGermany，MymomwasaMexican，andmydadwasGerman.whengrowingup，myfatherandmomrelocatedwithmewheniwas15+tostartanewlifeinAnkara，Turkey.hencemydadhadajobofferthere.itsquitealongstory，toshortitiwasraisedasayouthinTurkeywhereispentmuchofmytimeandenergyasayouth.Iamtheonlysurvivingsonofmyparentbothparentpastawaymanyyearsago.IcametoU.Stofurtherstudy.
IliveinWheatland，California，U.S.Idon'thaveKids，DespitethedeathofmywifeIstillknowhowtolove，IknowIcanstillloveagainbecauseIstillhaveburningdesireforloveandaffection，IknowhowtotreatawomanrightthatwasthereasonIhadawellrelationshipwithher.Iamnotasaintbutyoushouldnotletyourbadsideovershadowyourgoodpart，weallhavebadandgoodside，butIammoreonagoodsidethanthebadside.IthinkIwouldstophereandtellyouaboutmylikesanddislikes.IlikethegatheringofChristianbrothersandsistersaswegettoencourageandbuildourspirituallife.IplayBasketballandGolf.Ilovegoingtobeach，lovetolistengoodR&B，CountryandSlowsmusic.Ilovebeingwithgentleheartedpeoplethattakeslifeeasywitharightvisionofwhatthefutureholdsforthem，oncethataresincerewithanattitudeofself-control.Ihateliars，cheatersandself-centeredones.Idon'tlikepeoplethatfeeltheyarefarsuperiortoother，withaspiritofprideinthem.Idon'tsmoke.Ihavenotattoo.IlovethesoundofthunderstormbuttheyalsoscaremewhenI'malone，lol.Ihatebeingidol.Idon'ttelllies.nomatterhowithurtiratherspeakthetruthandexpectpletehonestysinceigiveit.MyfavouritecolorisRedandBlue.MyfavouritefoodishardtodecidebecauseIlovemostfoods.IusuallygoeatMexicanorItalianifI'mgoingouttodinner，orsteak.Ilovetocook.I'dloveforsomeonetocookwithmeorforme.Ilovethemountains.Ienjoyyardwork，onlymowingtheyardismyleastfavouritechorewithregardstotheoutdoors.
Chocolateismyfavouritetreat，Iloveflowers.Theyallsmellsobeautifulandsweet.Ilovetosnuggleupandwatchamovie，WhenIloveawoman，Iloveherwithallofmyheartandsoul，Iwanttolovesomeonesomuchthatithurtswhenshe'snotaroundme，IloveGodandallHebringstomylife.Ihavelotstooffersomeoneinthewayoflove，supportandtenderness，Ilovethesmelloffreshlymowedgrass.Iamafraidofheights.Ilovetoflythough.....Ienjoygoingtothemovies，IenjoygoingsomewherejusttositandpeoplewatchandIenjoyspendingmuchtimeatthefireplacelateatnight.Ilovetosing，anddance.Hmmmm!myhandsaregettingweakintyping.
Somepeopleewithsomanyflatteringwordsoflovebuthowtruearetheywiththeirstoriesoflove?SometimeIwonderwherethisworldisgoingto，wehavesomanydeceitfulpeopleouttherelookingforwhomtohurtemotionallyandallthataddingtothealreadyinflictedheart，wellIreallywonderiflovestillexist.IamstillgoingwiththefaithofGodthatsaysthereismanforeverywomanandthereisawomanforeveryman，butthatMrs.RightisallIamstilllookingfor.
Thisisthemuchicanwritenow;Ihopeyouarehavingagoodday.Ibelievethereisaneedforaconstantmunicationsoiwillwantustokeepourmunicationstrongforabetterfriendship.Iwillbehopingtohearfromyou.Pleasedosendmeyourpicture.
Regards
Dave
姜依喜欢他的信，她觉得他一定是一个很温和的人，并且她认为大卫的英文纯正而美丽。她认真的读他的信，最近几天她的英文水平有所提高，这也使她兴奋。
姜依认真的给大卫回信，告诉他她的家庭情况，告诉他她也喜欢巧克力和鲜花，她还喜欢旅行，去别的地方体会不一样的风土人情。
由于时差的原因，她总是在每天早上收到大卫的信，白天她会抽时间给他回信。
大卫的第二封信更长了，已经超过翻译软件5000字的限制。他给姜依讲了他的过去。
Hellojiang，
Howwasyourday??Iwasreallyimpressbyyouremail.Ijusthadawarmshowerandabouthavingaglassofwine，relaxforawhilebeforeIgotobed，butdecidedtowriteandtellyoumoreaboutmyself.However，I'mgladwehavebeenabletosharealotaboutourselves.I'mgladyoudidopenthissite，Atleastwemetandgettingtoknoweachother.ThisisthefirsttimeI'mtryingthis，MyfriendJamesfoundaKorealadyonthissiteandtheyarehappilymarriedlivinghereinWheatlandCalifornia.
Imustconfessthataminterestedinyouandifwecontinuetosharethingsaboutourselvesthisway，wewouldknoweachotherbetterandifwearepatibleandsharemoninterest，wecanproceedfromthere.AllIcansayfornowis“Youarewonderful“AnywayherearefewmorethingsIwillliketoshareaboutmyself.
LikeIsaidearlier，IwasbornandraisedinGermany.WhenIwasgrowingup...Iwassoclosetomymother，shealwayscaresformesinceIwasheronlysurvivingchild.Iwassupposedtohaveasister，butshediedthedayshewasborn.Iwasstillalittleboythen，butmymomtoldmethestorywhenIwasgrowingup.Ifeelsolonelybeentheonlyone，Myfatherworkedasaplumber，hewasabusyman...Mymomwasateacher，butnomatterhowbusyshewas.Shealwayscreatechancetotakemetothepark.Itwasalwaysfungoingoutwithmymom.Shealwaysbuysmedolls，andthelastIcouldrememberwasadollthatlookedexactlylikeme.WhenIheldhishandsandwalked，hewalkedtoo...LOL'Amjustthinkingbackasamtypingthisemail，andyouknowwhat?“AMMISSINGMYMOMSOBAD“BeforeIwasborn，mygrandmawasalreadydead...andwhenIwas3yrs，mygrandpadied.SoIneverhadthechancetogettoknowthem...thoughmymomdoestellmeaboutthem.Sayingtheyweresohumbleandcaring.ThatmyGrandpaboughtalotofgiftwhenIwasborn....Asakid，Iaskedmymomwherethegiftsare.Aretheynotforme??LOL...WhenIwas15+，myfatherhadajobopportunityinaplumbingpanyinTurkey，andwehavetomovetherebecausemymomlovesstayingclosetomydad.Soshequitherteachingjob，andestablishedabookshopinTurkey.TurkeywaswhereIspentmyyouthlife;IattendedAnkaraUniversity，Turkey.WhereIstudiedCivilEngineering，ThenIfurtheredmyEngineeringcourseinCockrellSchoolofEngineering.AustinTexas，andthatwaswhenImetmylatewifewhowasastudentofStatistic;hernamewas“Roxie“.Mywifediedinacaraccident，Wereallyhadagoodmarriageuntildeathtookherawayfromme.Afterherdeath，ihavededicatedmyworkIhaveremainedthisway，andnowamsearchingforsomeoneIcouldtrustandlovewithallmyheart.Nowthatwearemunicatingamsopleasedandwouldlovetokeepthemunicationgoing，Ijustpraysomethinggoodesoutofitbecauseyouareaveryniceandpolitewomanandamsointerestedinyou.Iknowwehavedifferentculture，ButIbelievewecangettoknoweachotherintrustandhonesty.Ibelievefaithhasmadeustomeet，soweshouldtrytomakethiswork.Idon'tmindtorelocatesolongIfindtruelove.I'mplaningmyretirementsoon.
FormyJob，asaselfemployedConstructionEngineer..IgettoemploylaborerwhenIgetacontract.hereismywebsitemaybeyoucanreadmoreaboutme(.heinrichconstruct)itísnotreallyeasybutIpreferittowhenIwasunderapanyinTexas.AsaselfemployedCivilEngineerihavealittleoffice，itdealswithbiddingandnegotiatingforcontractsthroughadvertisementandhuntthroughfirmsthatseemstohaveavailablecontracts.Ireallydon'tknowhowtoexplainthispart，butIhopeyouunderstand??However，Ibecameselfemployedin2003andIandRoxiemoveddowntoWheatland，Californiain2004withtheideaofusboth.Itísreallybeautifuldownhere.Ireallyneedsomeonetocuddle.lol.Nowbacktomyjob;AmworkingtowardsmyretirementbutIneedatleast，onemorecontractbeforeretirement.Asitisrightnow，IhavebeennegotiatingforacontractwithafirminGeorgiaforthepast4monthsnow，andtheyhaven'tappointedmeyetforaninterview.Hopefully，theywillhavemyapplicationprocessedsoon，asIwasincontactwiththemlastweekFridayandtheytoldmetheywillgetbacktome，soamstillwaiting.MyDear，lovedoexistandeveryonecanfindloveandbeopen..pleasejustopenupyourheartandyouwillreceivedthegreatestgiftcalledlove.HopefullyonedaywilletoOtakiandhelpyououtonthesmallgarden，hahaha.Youseemlikeafunnyperson，Ilikethat.
Wow!IjustlookedupandsawIhavewrittenaverylongemailagain，hopeitísnotboringyou???Meanwhilehowdidyourdaygo?Andwhatdidyoudo，Ihopeitwassplendid?Thismorning，Imadeajugofcoffeebutwithlittlesugarandmuchcream，doyoulikecoffee??Andhowdoyoulikeit???Ican'tbelieveamtellingyoueverythingaboutme.Wow!Ifeelsocloseandfreewithyou，thoughamveryopenanddowntoearth.Ireallywishicanfindsomeonetoloveandgetmarriedagaininthefuture.IfImayask，haveyoumetanyoneovertheInternetbefore??Thisismyfirstexperience;pleaseexplaintomeindetailswhathasbeenyourexperience.IhopeallgoeswellwithyouandI.Pleasewritewhenyougetthis，maybeinthemorning.Andpleasefeelfreetoaskmeanyquestionyoufeellikeasking，youaresuchanicewomanandamsofreewithyou.Willbewaitingtohearmoreofyousoon.What'syourJob?Thanksforyourbeautifulpicture..Youlooksobeautiful.
HAVEAGOODNIGHT.
Thanks
Dave
这几天姜依觉得自己变得温暖了，她真的希望可以有个人这样温柔的爱着她。让她觉得放松。她的电脑不能翻墙，她不能查到大卫给她的网址。
她给大卫回了信，向他介绍了自己的工作，并给大卫讲了她带着儿子去美国旅行的经历，告诉他她在美国西海岸一号公路上自驾旅行的感受，告诉他她在旧金山唐人街吃的像酱爆鸡丁一样的宫保鸡丁，还告诉他儿子的一些故事。很快她又收到大卫的第三封信。
GoodMorningjiang，
IgotyouremailandIenjoyedreadingthrough，I'msorryyouwerenotabletoreadmysite.YouwritesobeautifullyandIadmirethewayyouexpressyourself.I'mjustwonderingbecausethiswholethinglooksstrangetome，butinteresting.ThisismyfirsttryandIhopeallgoeswell，Ihavereadseveralnewswerecouplesmeetthroughthismeansandarehappilymarried.ThatisthekindofthingIwishfor，I'msearchingforalongtermrelationshipthatmightleadtomarriage.Ireallywantustobeclosetoeachother，andIappreciatethefactwehavebeenabletosharealotaboutourselves.Andnow，whatnext???Ijustwishicouldberightbesideyouandstareintoyoureyeswhilewetalk.thanksforallyourpictures，youlooksobeautiful.IhaveanHPprinter，Iwillhaveitprintedoutandplaceitbesidemybed.Atleast，agazeatyourphotoeverymorningwillalwaysbrightenmyday.
Tobehonestwithyou，Ireallywanttomeetagoodwoman，someonenicetostartanewlifewithafresh.Iwanttomeetakindheartedwoman，someoneicantrustbecauseofherhonestyandalsohersincerity.AwomanthatisworthytobeatruefriendandhavethefearofGodinherlife，awomanthattounderstandourselveswon'tbeaproblem.Youknowtounderstandawomanitisveryimportanttoknowthetwopartofthatwomanwhichisthementalandthephysical，virtuallyallmenseethephysicalbeautyofawomanbutifyoumustreallyknowagoodwomanyoumusthavetoknowhermentallyandthatincludesherspiritualandemotionalpresence.withoutfindingherwholepersonthatmanisdefinitelygoingtofallshortofpletinghimselfandfindingthebetterhalf.Asforme，idon'treallylookatthatphysicalbeautyofawomanbutthatinwardnaturebecausethatiswhatmakesaperson...Allineedisthatwomanthatisreadytobethattruefriend，abestfriendandasoulmatenotapretendernoradeceiver.
Iwantawomanthatwecanenjoylifetogether.Pleasecanihaveyourphonenumbersowecanalwaystalkoverthephone.Lifeisonebigimportantthingthatweallneedtobeveryseriouswith，I'mvery，veryseriouswithmineandthethingsthatareofparamountimportancetome.GodisnumberoneandHe'sbeenthemostimportantoneinmylifeforwithoutGodlifewouldhavebeenmeaningless，secondly，familyisimportantandthereisonepieceofthatfamilyunitmissingandthathadcreatedavoidinmylifethatunitisawife，iamseekingawomanthatwecanbehappytogether，someonethatcanbeatruefriend，abestfriendandasoulmate.IhaveprayedtoGodforthatandiknowthereisamiraclewaitingforme....Mydear，Hopeamnotscaringyounow..allineedisyoursincereresponsebecauseamveryinterestedinyou.
Pleasewritemewhenyoucanandalsoprovidemewithyournumber，Ialwaysenjoyreadingthroughyouremail.Amwishingyoualovelyday.NB:Pleasealwaystrytogetintouchwithmeontime.IreallyneedtomeetmysoulmateandIhopethatisyou.
GoodNight
Yourfriend，
Dave
姜依在回信中告诉了大卫她的电话号码，并给他讲了她对婚姻的看法。大卫每天早晨和晚上会给她打一个越洋电话。虽然姜依的英文不好，听不懂他说什么，但是他说没关系，慢慢的，会好的。他是那么温柔和体贴。除了每天的电话，大卫仍然坚持给姜依写信。
Dearjiang，
Goodmorningtoyouandhowwasyournight?
ItwasreallynicereadingyourwonderfulemailsoIdecidedtodropyouthisemail.Afterreadingyourlastemail，IhadyouinmythoughtsallnightlongandIkeptsmiling，youmakemewearabigsmileonmyfaceandIappreciateallthat.Thanksforsharingsomuchaboutyourselfwithme，IfeelveryhappywhenIgetanemailfromyou.Iknowyouhavehadsomebadexperienceonyourpastmarriage，ButIwanttopromiseyouthat，Iwillmakeyoufeeldifferent.YesIamreligious，Ibelievepeoplehavetheirdifferentbelieves，assuchweshouldrespecteachotherbelieves.Iwillneverforceyoutojoinme，becauseIknowyouhaveyourownbelieveandIshouldrespectyouforthat.Iknowyouarenotinarushtofindlove.Butyoulovehasnotime，Itcaneanythingwhenwedon'texpect.Iamaverysimpleperson，Imaylookthoughfrommypicture.ButIameasytogetalongwith.BecauseIamlikeanopenbook，Veryplainandopentopeople.Especiallyyou，BecauseIreallywanttobepartofyourlife.Idohopeyougivemethechancetobeabletobuildagoodrelationshipwithyou.Ibelievewehavenoproblemsatall..BecauseWeseemtounderstandeachother..Allweneedistobehonestandtruthfultoeachother...Imustmendthatyouaresuchawonderfulandlovelywoman，YouwordsthrillsmeandIfeellikerunningintoyourarmsrightnow.Itisnicetowakeupandreadfromyou，knowingthatyoucaresomuchaboutmemakesmereallyhappyandfeelveryhonored.Whatsyoursonname?Thanksforprovidingyourphonenumber，YouhavesuchawonderfulvoicewhichI'lllovetoheareverymorningwhenIwakeupandatnightbeforegoingtobed.JustwanttoletyouknowthatIamthinkingofyouandyou'llremaininmythought.IwilltrytodownloadWeChatlater.
IwishIhadsomeonetowakeuptoandkissheronhercheekinthemorningandalsosomeonetoehometomeetandhugmewele.IwokeupveryearlythisMorningthinkingaboutyou.However，Iwaswonderingifyousleepwithyourside，orwithyourbelleorback.which???Areyouareligiousperson??Ifyes，pleasealwaysprayforme，asIwillbeprayingforyoutoo.Iguessyouknowmyprofession?andhowIhavebeengoingaboutnegotiationforacontractwithafirminGeorgiaforthepast4monthsnowandyetnogoodnews，Ihopeyouknow???OK!justsayprayersformeregardingthis.Jiang，I'minterestedinyouandsometimes，Ifeelsolonely.I'msohappyyoucamemyway.Thepictureyousenttome，reallybeautifulandIloveit.
Anywayletmestophere.I'mwishingyoualovelyandwonderfuldayoverthereandSayhellotoyoursonforme.
Regards
David
姜依在回信中对大卫说，她觉得自己无法跟上大卫的节奏，他迅速的打开了他的心扉，而自己不能。她回了信：我不得不承认，我无法跟上你的感情发展。我很紧张，我怀疑，我不能开放，我需要一些时间。虽然我期待有一个人相伴一生，但是上周我还在徘徊，几天的时间，你就走进我的生活，这一切太快了。我们还有很多问题没有解决，比如宗教信仰，我会尊重你的宗教信仰，但请不要强迫我加入，也请尊重我的宗教信仰。我已经有过失败的婚姻，这次的婚姻，我会很谨慎，我的确希望能找到一个一起到老的人。但如果我找不到，等我把儿子抚养长大，我将去寺庙里，青灯、古佛、读经、禅修，了度余生……
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